Men and women love to talk about each other’s flaws, but the truth is that there are some undeniable physical attributes that draw a woman to a man and a man to a woman. So with that in mind, here are some common and uncommon features that attract men to women and women to men.




You men out there are thinking, “Of course, women are shallow,” but when it comes to noticing a man’s face, women aren’t just looking at handsomeness, they are putting a man’s face into total perspective. So what does that mean, exactly? Well, women tend to like guys whose face are symmetrical. For example, they ask questions such as:  Are his ears way too big in comparison to the size of his head? Are his eyes too far apart? Are his eyebrows too thin or too thick, or is he a unibrow? In addition, women admire a man with a square jaw, cleft chin, defined cheekbones and last but definitely not least, a welcoming smile that reveals white teeth.



Yep, there’s no way to get around it, women notice a man’s butt more than just about any other feature. And while you won’t get unanimity about what makes a good butt, you will hear things such as the curve of the butt, the tightness, the shape and the way it moves in jeans. So, some cliches really do arise from tried and true conventions.



Women have a way of being able to x-ray through a man’s clothes to determine if his stomach is flat. If you’re a guy, don’t despair and think that you need washboard abs to attract that hottie, but you will need to make sure that your stomach is flat. Having a six-pack of abs is an advantage, but it’s even more important that you can see your feet, meaning, that lugging around a beer gut isn’t going to get you noticed by a beautiful woman.




If the eyes are indeed the window to your soul, then lots of women notice a man’s soul, because women are drawn to man’s eyes. And though there’s a wide disparity in favorite color, the one thing women will say is that a man’s eyes give you insight into what kind of person he is when he’s alone. For example, laugh lines tell a woman that a man likes to laugh and have a good time. Dark, hooded eyes may imply a mystery and edginess that could draw women who like bad boys.